I don't know to do
I technically broke up with her after almost 10 months. We were fighting a good amount so we talked about breaking up and "staying friends." so we decided that one Sunday would be our "last day together," ridiculous I know but w/e.
So I scheduled a date for the Saturday, even though we weren't COMPLETELY broken up I thought may as well start now. Then I told her about it that Friday. Both of which were the worst choices I think I've ever made.
So she flipped. And she was really mad. So after about a week I start to miss her like no other. The girl I went to see for the date, well I'm still seeing her every few days but its not working out. I don't want her. And she's way too attached. I want my old girlfriend. Its only been like two weeks but she told me she was over me when I asked her so I don't know.
I mean what should I do?
Just give it time and ill get over it eventually?
Break it off with the new girl and try for the old girlfriend? But what if she never takes me back?


Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaa obvs I'm here cause I don't know what to do

OK break it off with the new girl, because its not fair for her.. . then try to talk to your ex about how you feel... but if I was her I wouldn't take you back.. sorry

That wasn't very nice was it.

Break ups are never easy unless one of the party is a complete problem and they would rather just be without that person.

Maybe your ex girlfriend felt the same about you what you feel about the new girl. Have you thought of that? Also you were dating another girl before you guys even agreed to split. What does that say about you? The reason I mention this is because maybe you should look at yourself and how you have handled things different.

Allow some time to go by and find something to do. And not another girl. Work out, join a group, take up painting, be in public places, self improvement courses... find yourself.

If it's really meant to be, she will contact you.

Good luck to you.

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Just give it time and ill get over it eventually.
Break it off with the new girl

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That's the best way to go about it.

Leave the ex alone, heal, then see how you feel about dating again.

Don't hurt this new girl because I'm sure you don't care much about her, and move on from your ex if she wants nothing to do with you, no contact and let it go.