We are in the market for a new home. Ive gone through the financing part and got approved for significantly more than we intend on spending. The market in our area is glutted with homes selling for 10-25% under appraisal and competition is fierce for legitimate buyers.
So here is my question: if our new home appraises for 250K and we get an approved offer for 220K, is there anything that says we can't work a deal with the seller that we agree on 240K and they give us 20K cash back?
Follow-up question: if this is possible (and I believe it is because I hear about getting credits for repairs and such) is there a rule or limit on what the money can be spent on? For instance - could we use it to put in a pool? Upgrade the kitchen cabinets? Pay off our car? Buy out our lease? Take a cruise?
Thanks in advance for your insights.

