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  • Nov 22, 2008, 10:47 PM
    cullen4eva
    What to do,when you feel your boyfriend is not into you and your crushin on a girl too
    :( totally ugh.

    I feel that my boyfriend doesn't want me anymore,so what is a girl suppose to do.
    I know how guys are, but he doesn't act like it. I mean he can be so INSENSITIVE .
    I just wish he would be more romantic.
    && as for the girl.

    I like my friend , but tonight she spent the night over my house and I made out with her a couple of times, but she likes my brother and they did a couple of things that I would rather not type because I'm so pissed off! What should I do?

    My boyfriend said it was okay, for me to have a girlfriend too.

    Ugh I'm so mad.
    I kissed her, I liked it.
    We kissed more, she liked it
    And yet my brother gets her, and they end up having oral on my MOMS COUCH!
    Which I'm sick to my stomach about,
    What the hell should I do?


    My mood: I'm totally depressed.
  • Nov 23, 2008, 05:06 AM
    High Max

    Oh no, what ever will you do? Your brother got to have fun with your friend instead.

    Just because it's the same sex, doesn't mean its not cheating. See, you should be talking to your boyfriend and making an ultimatum that if he doesn't start treating you better, that you will be leaving. You should have given him a chance to do this.

    Now you have crossed the line, but you seem more concerned that your brother got your friend? What would your boyfriend think about this?
  • Nov 23, 2008, 06:51 AM
    cullen4eva
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by High Max View Post
    Oh no, what ever will you do? Your brother got to have fun with your friend instead.

    Just because its the same sex, doesnt mean its not cheating. See, you should be talking to your boyfriend and making an ultimatum that if he doesn't start treating you better, that you will be leaving. You should have given him a chance to do this.

    Now you have crossed the line, but you seem more concerned that your brother got your friend? What would your bf think about this?



    Your right!
    I mean, I'm so fed up with my boyfriend no being romantic that I seem tha I care about my friend more han my boyfriend. Is cause I like her for 2 months but I can move on.
    Thanks.
  • Nov 23, 2008, 07:02 AM
    High Max

    Yeah, I'd just break up with him if he isn't willing to change and be better to you.
  • Nov 23, 2008, 09:52 AM
    talaniman

    You have to many attraction distractions to focus on what's important.

    Not good, that you, and your brother are doing the same person.

    Stay out of relationships, as your all about hormones right now, and can't see beyond them.

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