Okay, so, I really want to stretch my lobes.. but I don't know how big I can go, because when I've only got a hole which is below where the second hole should go but before the first hole should go, because they had to re-pierce my first one but couldn't go over the scar, so it's a little out of place, but not too much.. and I don't know if it would look right..


What do you think?

Hi aliciaa:

In my opinion large gauges do not look good on girls. It's unfeminine. I like the smaller ones. I read your situation... so not sure of that aspect... I just think larger ones are not pretty on girs. Good luck :)

It's hard to imagine now, but when you are 55 years old and your skin is stretched out and wrinkly from aging, you may wish you would never have deliberately stretched out your lobes. By that time, your lobes could be resting on your shoulders.