I have 2 friends (lets call them M and T) Well we were on the swings, and T was saying to M "Geuss who I like? And I could hear what T's crushes where. Then T asked M "Who do you like?" I could not hear them. Then they just left me and went some where else! M's friend R, was sitting next to me. I was trying to talk to her (But R does not talk!) When I went to where M and T where with R. M was like "You want to play with R?" when I got there. So I just ran off and left them. How can I talk to my friends? I feel like they do not know me!


More to it: When I asked, "What did M say" T said, "I will tell you in a minute" (SHE NEVER TOLD ME!)

Hi! (I call my 1 of my friends Ma because there is another one in the story naed Mo) My friends T and Ma act like I am not around. When we were on the swings, T and Ma were talking, and when I heard someone was moving, I asked "Who is moving?" Then T said, "Hold on, I will tell you." But she did not. They left me out and went somewhere else. Then, on Friday, T and I were in the bathroom will the class was watching a movie. T said, "Our friend Mo is hanging out with K! I do not like K and I feel she is going to take away my friend." I said that I had 2 friends that did not talk to me or play with me. She asked what I did, and I said one came to me and said she had problems with her friend, and she did not know it was her! What do I do to get my friends back.

Your friends aren't going to read your mind and take hints like that.

You have to be direct. Just tell them honestly that it hurt your feelings when they left you out and you feel like you are losing them as friends. They aren't going to know how you feel about this until you tell them.

Sounds like you're the 3rd wheel, I know exactly what your feeling. Your other 2 friends have grown closer and left you behind. They're not being nice at all, and either aren't aware of what they are doing, or don't care. And if they don't care, or when u tell them they don't change, get new friends because no one deserves that.

Tuesday, I talked to them, and they said they would play with me. But not anymore. They lied. So... I never told them they were not my friends anymore because I feel afaid to.

If you would rather not be friends with them anymore, you don't need to tell them that. If they are continually leaving you out even though you talked to them, I would look to find new friends.

You don't have to keep hanging around them if it's only going to hurt your feelings. Protect yourself and spend your time around others who make you feel positive about yourself.

Thank you.