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  • Nov 20, 2008, 03:15 PM
    Simone21295
    Am I Crazy or is it Her?
    I hate my life. I don't know where my mom is and I never did. My dad dosen't want me and I never see him. I would have been a orphan if it wasn't for my grandmother, but I swear she gets on my last nerve. She is super overprotective, I can't even hang out in my nice neighborhood. For example, I got a new Neighbor, I was 12 and she was 8. She didn't even want me to hang out with her unless she was wathing us the whole time IN THE FRONT YARD. Im 13 now in high school and she is still the same way. AM I CRAZY OR IS IT HER?
  • Nov 21, 2008, 08:21 AM
    Chin-Chee

    Ok, I know what you mean with the overprotective stuff, but she is just worried about you coming up missing or something. You know a lot of bad things happen to kids/ teens these days. But I do think she needs to give you a little more space I mean you are 13 years old. Why don't you try to sit down and talk to her about it, and tell her how you really feel if you haven't yet. And build her trust more and you will get more freedom! If you ever need anything Im here, -ok- Good luck!


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  • Nov 21, 2008, 12:23 PM
    tntdynamite

    I get what your saying, and I understand what chin-chee was saying about her just being worried about u. try sitting down with your grandma, or see if she'll let you invite the nice girl over 2 UR house. I'm not sure which parents mother she is, but maybe she's just afraid to lose you like she did her child. Maybe if you assure her you love her and aren't planning 2 leave her anytime soon, she'll loosen up. Good luck, and I hope everything works out!
  • Nov 24, 2008, 03:25 PM
    StrawberryGum

    Umm tell her how you feell. Like grandma I owe you everything for raisin me and I'm so thankfull for you . Ts not that I don't to be around you but I'm but I'm in high school and I need some space. So please give it to me.
  • Sep 28, 2009, 02:46 AM
    lovebeatsme101

    Just understand that your still very young and speaking for myself only be 18... no matter where you are a parent or a grandmother in your case wants NOTHING to happen to you !
    So.. it might be hard right now but.. life goes so fast next thing you will know is that your 18 and it's a cruel world out there and maybe you will understand why she was that way with you than you will thank her .
    Good Luck sweetie don't grow up too fast now!
  • Oct 3, 2009, 04:47 PM
    animal_lover

    Put yourself in her position... she knows you arnt having the most perfect lid without your parents... she doesn't want it to get worse for you so maybe she is getting a little over protective. It might be a good neighborhood but that doesn't mean all the people in it are good. You are still kind of young even if you are in high school. Talk to her tell her that you get that it's her job to be protective but it wouldn't hurt to be a little less protective. When she does give you it be careful.
    Good luck.
  • Oct 7, 2009, 11:00 AM
    sparkles79
    it is just her i know how it feels i have been through that to:(:eek:
  • Oct 7, 2009, 11:02 AM
    sparkles79

    Do u think my boyfriend is cheating on me I always see him with this girl it is getting on my nerves

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