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Him and Me

OK well I know when it comes to likeing a guy, and its been said to be yourself, what do you do when YOU YOURSELF don't think you are good enough for that some 1.what should you do? O and what exactly does it mean like if you love a guy so much that you basically know his full schedule, and want him to speak to you everyday andjust can't wait to get to school to see him! I need answers, what do you all think! O check my other questions to! Please and thanks you!:o

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Lot of posts for basically the same question. You don't need to start a new thread, just answer the ones you have already started. It gets very confusing to readers with all these threads.

I think your to young, and have a crush that you need to let go of, and stay with guys your own age.

I'm a huge proponent of self confidence. If you want someone else to like you, you have to like yourself first. It's not an exact science, but he'll like and respect you to the same degree that you like and respect yourself.

Get your relationship with yourself squared away before you start trying to develop meaningful relationships with others.

OK, I have two gripes here.

1. You start a new thread every time you have a question about the same guy. Is it because you don't like the answers that you have been given?

2. You don't start and finish proper sentences, and that just irks me to no end! We ask everyone here not to treat this site as a chatroom or a cell-phone with shortcuts in the English language - and it is actually also a rule. So, please try a little better. It is hard for me to concentrate when people use 'texting'.

My next point is that you are young, and this guy treated you nice. That just tells me he's a kind person and sees when someone is sad. He has a girlfriend right now, and there is no guarantee that this will stay that way forever, but if he paid attention to you, he'd probably get into legal trouble - so if you like him, don't purposely get him into trouble he does not need or deserve just because he was nice to you.

You are not in love, or lust, it's just a crush, and you will have many many more of them until you advance to the next stage. You have to learn about yourself and what puberty can do - it can be very confusing but we all go through it and survive.

Just stay cool, and try to relax. Right now it's best to just make friends and forget about the other stuff for a while. Concentrate on your education and your own future plans without 'dreaming' of someone to share it with you so early in life. Talk to your Mother, she went through this too and she can also give you some hints on how to control your spontaneous feelings and put them in the right order.

Good luck dear. And, as Tal said - please just stick to one thread and 'answer' to continue with another post to reply to us.

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You are not alone in this, it happens to everybody. It just depends on how you cope, so stop the panic.
This should also have been posted in the Teens sections, as this is not really a true relationship issue, but we will help where we can do stay with us and calm down.

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Originally Posted by Chin-Chee

what exactly does it mean like if you love a guy so much that u basicly know his full schedule, and want him to speak to u everyday andjust can't wait to get to school to see him!

This may just be me but this sounds more like infatuation than love.

Thanks!