I have a question for all of you I'm not even sure I'm putting it in the right place but here it goes. I've been married for a year now and I can't get pass my husband cheating on me when we started dating. We decided to get together because I got pregnant but also because we liked each other a lot, which later grew into love an got married. But anyway he cheated with a an ex girlfrind once which he was dating first while he decided to start seeing me but I did not know until he decided to tell me because he did not want secrets between us. But the thing is I also went out on dates with other guys but never did anything with them but he did. And also when we first found out that I was pregnant after 2 months of dating he broke off all contact with his ex. But his ex stills bother us and even though she lives with another guy insist on getting back together with my my husband. She is 30 years old and I'm 21, but I don't know what to do. Should I just forgive him and move on? And what can I do about his ex? I need your help because we fight over this a lot.

He has stopped all contact with his ex? Why is she still contacting you both then?
Your husband HAS to tell her to stop it and leave you both alone. That isn't acceptable at all for her to be bothering you both when you are trying to move on, and it makes it difficult for you to forgive him if she is a constant "threat" in your lives.

What does your husband think about this? Has he done anything to make her stop?

First, you can't hold something against him that happened before your marriage. You stated yourself that you wa dating other guys when you was dating him and it seems like he was doing the same and even came clean with you about it.That's what dating is all about until your both agrees to become serious.

Now exactly how did his ex gietlfriend get your phone number and have you discuss this with him? If not then do so. If she continues calling after she was told not then change your number and make sure it is unlisted. Wait a second, is she calling his cell phone or house phone?

I would talk to your husband.