I have a neighbor whom I've become very fond of. We have spent a lot of time together the past several months. He is flirty with me but when we shared our first kiss (he said I totally turned him on) he was all about Im really not looking to be in a relationship and is freaked out about us living across the street. I know he finds me attractive but Im shocked because we had our 2nd kissing encounter I even belly danced with quite a sexy outfit on. He took pictures but nothing happened. He is like still all freaked out about the neighbor thing. I guess I've never had a man turn down sex so its quite mind boggling. We talked and he said Im a very attractive woman but he is really not looking and the neighbor thing freaks him out. I keep thinking if he really liked me that wouldn't matter we are adults and I don't have a problem with it. He said he has to think with his big head!