My husband stays out at least three to four nights per week. He has stated to me that he is not doing anything wrong. He say that he will ride listen to music, cry about how he is feeling emotionally. He stated to me that he loves me but he is not in love with me anymore. He stated that he does not know what happened. Even though he has stated to me that he is doing nothing wrong I still have been searching for information to see if he is cheating on me. I can't find anything. He normally comes home right before work on week nights and on weekends he will come home that afternoon. He is paying all the bills but he will not spend any quality time with me and the kids. He will talk to the kids more than he will show any interest in me. I often ask him what's wrong and he says that he leave because he can't sleep and he gets very adgiated. Because of his role in the community he does not want marital counseling.

Please help. You can ask me questions if you like. I love my husband but if he is cheating he has to go.:confused::confused:

Ministers, judges, lawyers, police men have marriage problems. If he is too proud to get professional help then I see no alternative except to ask him to find another place to hang his clothes until he is willing to face the problem head on and get the help you obviously need.