I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years,we just bought a house together,well I should say he bought,my little girl and I just live there,even though I do work full time too. The thing is, he never wants to spend any time with me anymore,we haven't been intimate with each other in probably a good 4 months,but he still wants to "cuddle" at night.When I ask him about why we haven't,he just says he's always tired,and he does work a very strenuous job with long hours,but I just feel rejected and hurt by this.we're both young,I'm 26. And when he does get a day off he usually is too busy drinking and hanging with his best friend,that by the time he comes to bed he's usless anyway.Why won't he have sex with me? I really do try and he just uses excuses "i"m tired" "I got a headache" "my back hurts".What do I do??