Okay well I've been dating this guy for 8 months now.. and the first couple of months he cheated on me twice. I know I should've ended it then but it's not as easy as I thought it'd be. For some reason I keep coming back to him. Every time. Ilove this boy and he says he loves me but sometimes I'm not sure he means it. He has a problem with wanting to talk to girls all the time.. and sometimes he'll choose talking to them over me , like when a girl will text him and we're in the middle of a conversation he'll just end the conversation with me and keep talking to her.. we've broken up a couple of times and we get back together every time. It seems like every time I'm almost over him, He comes back again.. How do I know that the reason we keep getting back together is because we're supposed to be together or if that's not the case how do I know when enough is enough.. and when do I know when to stop trying..

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I know I should've ended it then but it's not as easy as I thought it'd be.

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Sorry, but you allow him to do what he does, and so he will keep doing it.

Since you can't stand up for yourself, and do right by yourself, and leave him alone, then be happy, when he has time for you.

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How do I know when enough is enough.. and when do I know when to stop trying..

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HINT- Its way beyond that now.

He's probably coming back to you because he knows he can do whatever he wants, for example cheat on you and your still dumb enough to take him back, no one deserves to get cheated on please understand that. You deserve better for yourself, don't let people take advantage of your emotions, if he loved you he wouldn't be snooping around with other women and such.