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  • Nov 15, 2008, 07:41 AM
    gabeysmom
    I'm happily married, so why do I have a crush on another man?
    My husband and I have been married for 9 years, and we're very happy and planning on conceiving a 4th child soon. However, another man has come into my life in a social situation, and I can't stop thinking about him! I don't want to have sex with him, but I often fantasize about kissing him. What gives?? :confused:
  • Nov 15, 2008, 08:03 AM
    talaniman

    That's normal, and healthy to be attracted to others, and even fantasize every now and then.

    Just don't act on it, and keep it to yourself, and enjoy the fantasy, as it will pass.
  • Nov 15, 2008, 08:34 AM
    neverme

    Not an easy situation though :D but talinman is right, natural and healthy...
  • Nov 15, 2008, 08:43 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Thats normal, and healthy to be attracted to others, and even fantasize every now and then.

    Just don't act on it, and keep it to yourself, and enjoy the fantasy, as it will pass.

    Smart man. Couldn't of said it better myself.
  • Nov 15, 2008, 09:47 AM
    gabeysmom
    Thanks... it's just scary, because it's never happened before, and we've been together for 15 years! I'm definitely not acting on it, and soon, we won't be socializing much anymore.
  • Nov 15, 2008, 09:50 AM
    LifeChangesMan
    You have a lucky man. I wish I had the same success, my girlfriend of 4.5 years walked out on me, my stories here, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ke-280105.html please read and give input if you could, I'd appreciate it.

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