I have two pending law suits against me for items related to a former employer. Basically I was a GM of a business and authorized purchases and owner never paid so now they are coming after me. My wife has nothing to do with any of these but lawyers are sending her certified letters and including her name. I have asked the people seeking suits to leave her off since she has nothing to do with this. It has caused a real burden on our marriage as a whole. If we were to separate would they leave her alone since it is my problem and not hers.