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  • Nov 14, 2008, 05:32 PM
    princess89
    Is he serious?
    There is a guy at school who makes eye contacts with me several times at lunch. But I don't even know him and I don't have any classes with him. I think he likes me though because whenever I meet him in hallways or on my way home, he always blocks my ways and starts asking stupid question, like where do I live, what language I speak, and if I have a boyfriend. He won't leave me alone and one time he even said that he wanted me to be his girlfriend. But I don't know if he's being serious when he says that. Since I don't know him that much, I don't know what to do. But he keeps appearing around me and he seems to be waiting for me afterschool at the places where I always pass by. I don't know what to decide and I have no clue if he's really into me or being serious with me or just playing around. Any help or advice please?
  • Nov 14, 2008, 06:20 PM
    LifeChangesMan
    Here's an idea, talk to him.
  • Nov 14, 2008, 07:56 PM
    TrueFaith

    He blocks you in the halls..

    Keeps looking at you

    Ask you questions

    Where you live

    If you have a boyfriend
    And can you be his girlfriend

    And you are wondering if he is serious? :confused::confused:

    I have a question... are you?

    Just talk to him it's a 100% clear he finds you interesting

    So start talking to him. And see if you guys fit
  • Nov 14, 2008, 08:06 PM
    jodj

    Right next time he asks u out just do a little giggle and say, "y dont we just be friends first, after all i dont even know ur name" then ask him questions

    TADA! :P
  • Nov 14, 2008, 09:20 PM
    strong__dan

    Well do you like him back? If you do talk to him and hang out with him, if not just tell him you want to just be friends.
  • Nov 14, 2008, 09:29 PM
    babygurl1988

    Sounds kind of creepy to me lol. He wants to know where you live? That's just weird. Ask him to hang out. But go with a couple of friends. Like double date. Go bowling or somewhere you guys can talk and you can get to know him better. Good luck
  • Nov 14, 2008, 11:07 PM
    TrueFaith
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by babygurl1988 View Post
    sounds kinda creepy to me lol.

    He is probable just a kid lol

    Come on girl. Like you never had a boy ask you a messt up question before

    Emotions make us say the most mornic things
  • Nov 14, 2008, 11:50 PM
    babygurl1988

    Lol true. But I never had a guy ask me where I lived. Lol. Maybe it's not as creepy. If he is just a kid. It's difference when it's a teenager and he's older. I have had a guy ask me how big my vagina was though. Lol. Now that's creepy. He was also lost for words I think and said the first thing he though. Lmfao
  • Nov 15, 2008, 08:06 AM
    talaniman

    Don't lead him on, be clear that you have no interest at all.
  • Nov 15, 2008, 12:47 PM
    babygurl1988
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Don't lead him on, be clear that you have no interest at all.

    How can you be sure she doesn't have any interest in him. She doesn't know him. Perhaps she does have interest. Try hanging out with him but let him know it's just as friends for now since you don't know anything about him.
  • Nov 15, 2008, 02:01 PM
    talaniman
    She hasn't said anything about having an interest, so how do you know she has? Don't you think after seeing him everywhere, and he has asked her to be his g/f, she would have responded if she was interested?

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