My boyfriend dumped me twice and can't seem to get over him!
I got with this man at work about a year ago, I found out he was married (getting a divorce). We moved in together and I found out he cheated on his first wife that he had children with, with his wife he was married to when I got with him-this upset me cause I had a conversation the first night he took me out about people cheating. Anyway he seemed to stop caring after I became untrustworthy of him-which I felt I had good reason from catching him in lies here and there. Well I moved out, still begging him back, he would talk to me here and there to string me along. All of a sudden three months later he wanted me back. I asked him if he had sexual encounters with anyone while we were broken up-he said no-that all he could think about was me.. Come to find out a week later this women kept calling his phone non stop (I did not realize this, until I asked to use his phone cause mine was dead and he was hiding it from me) so I took it and she was had been texting and calling and calling. This was his girlfriend he had when we broke up that he was still talking to while he got back with me and to top it off he was also talking to his wife (now just barley ex-wife). So he lied to me the whole time. I checked his phone records from the first time I was with him, I found out he was pretty much cheating on me the hole time when I was with him the first time, living with him. He was on chat lines on his mobile web every time he would leave to work, plus sneak away every so often at home. So anyway sorry this is so long. I freaked out about everything I found out did not trust him, he begged me to give him a couple months over and over, saying it would never happen again. So I fell for it!! I did not trust him and I made sure he new about it. He ended up dumping me again "because of my trust issues" and now I am all sad and still can't find it in me to get over him! And I know I should because he has done me so wrong!! What do I do? How do I get over this? :(