Hello everyone. I lost my baby to be about a little over three weeks ago, I started feeling better not too long after but now its unbearable. I am always sad, I sit on my bed just trying to pick out an outfit and I cannot. I just cry and cry, always crying. I feel like pulling out my hair, I get lost in my own emotions. Crying crying always CRYING Everything is worse now, the slightest thing makes me feel hopeless. I sit in the "babys room" looking around from my little chair, seeing all the things that were supposed to be. I have lost all meaning and am afraid I'm losing myself. My very core is disipating... please can anyone help me..

First, don't sit in the baby room, it is too painful. Although I am sympathic to how you feel, I can not imagine the pain that comes with losing a child. I think that it is very appropriate to seek out proper counsel, as the pain you are going through will be difficult to handle on your own. Rely on the support of your family as well, as I am sure many of them share in your grief.

Thank you for your kind words, I think I may seek some grief consuling.

Have you heard of americanpregnancy.org? They have a discussion forum you can join and talk to other mothers that have lost. I am on there because I had miscarriage last week... and another in the beginning of oct. I was only 4 weeks each time but I know that it's hard to think positive about yourself. Love and support from family helps but it helps even more to talk to other women that have lost and who continue to try again. I was going to give up trying. But because I have met women that have lost and continued trying encouraged me to keep trying and to find answers! And I think it would be good if you packed up the babies things. And store them for now. It's not good for you to look at it. Have some one come over and help you put away your things. And remember you are not alone millions of women go through this.