To lazy for sex or not that into me?
I have been dating this guy for a little less than 3 months. I am 27 and he is 36. Our courtship has been super sweet and almost picture perfect we had the best first dates that consisted of 5 hour dinners and long intimate discussions wine bars, he was great with my friends at a BBQ and he gushed about me to them! We didn’t have sex until after the first month and it was a little awkward to start with (he had problems staying hard) but he assured me that it in time the problem would fix itself… and for the most part it did. But now even though he can generally stay hard throughout the act it is rarely long enough for me to finish (he cums first) and we have sex a lot less often then I would like and oddly limited to the morning hours (mainly because he conveniently wakes up with a n erection). I am young and healthy with a pretty normal sex drive. He is a tad older but still not out of his prime. I am not sure if there is something that I am doing wrong but it is disconcerting to always be the initiator and I feel less attractive that he doesn’t want me as much as I want him. We have had amazing chemistry since we met and he is a great kisser and loves to snuggle but when it comes down to actually getting down he kind of poops out almost like he is to lazy! I say this because he generally lazy when it comes to any physical activity (ie: cleaning, walking). He is an ex athlete so I know he must have some stamina, but is it possible that he is just too lazy to have sex? I make jokes about wanting more sex and have even tried telling him his not reciprocating the way I am all over him hurts me but nothing changes. The crazy thing is he seems so content to date me, call me, spend the night, do dinner and a movie or drinks at bars with friends minus the sex! I feel like because we are new and just started being intimate we should be like rabbits. What is going on... is he just not that into me? Is he gay? Can he really be that lazy? And how on earth can I talk to him about this without bruising his ego? I am inclined to call it quits but I would like to at least give an explanation why and hope maybe there is a reason behind this madness.