Thing is me and my partner have been together for 4 years now and he told me that he made love to another whilst I was visiting my farther for 2 weeks he went out on his own and started to dance with another girl then he agreed to follow her to her house and he did his dirty work then got up and left he aventually told me a week after but what my question is : is he truly sorry he's cryed in my arms and tried to get close to me I can see it in his eyes he regreted what he did. But why didn't I spring to mind when he was being unfaithfull and one of the reasons he says he did it was because she is skinny I'm a size 14-16 I feel like I have to change to stop my bloke from cheeting or to stay with anyone 4 that matter. Will he do it again I just don't no am I waisting my time trying to patch this relationship up for him to braek my heart again it seems he has taken the weight of his sholders by telling me and I'm the one left to suffer can anyone give me any advise on what he should do to win my heart and trust back bcoz I have never felt so depressed its never happened to me before please help... I want to be able to forget and forgive but I don't want him to feel under the thumb so he does it again... xxxxx:confused::mad::(

Your boy friend is a fag

He will do it again if he sees that you won't leave

Boy have you bought his act hook line and sinker. He cheats and now you think it is your fault, I guess next time you burn dinner he can go cheat because of that also.

He is a dog, he made a choice to take his pants down, and he did it because he has no love or respect for you.

And now he has you thinking you did something to "make him"

No this is not true, if he was going to be faithful he would o matter what

Leave him now!! He might say he loves you but anyone that treats someone that way does not know how to love anyone but themselves. How hurtful! I cannot imagine the anguish you are going through.
First of all to tell you he cheated because she was skinny is degrading and downright mean to you. As hard as it is right now try to find some confidence to leave this sorry excuse for a man. You will be better off without him.
I get so angry when I hear of things like this.
Try to stay aware of the mind games and manipulation he is using with you. This was NOT your fault and you need to leave him because he will do it again.

NVM I posted in the wrong area, sorry.