My girlfreind used to get raped by here ex boyfreind. There relatoinship lasted a year and a half. I'm helping her deal with it and counsling her because I was raped when I was younger as well. We have had sex before she told me about this and it was really great to. But now that she tolled me what happened to her she is afraid of being turned on and I'm starting to get really depressed and it is making me feel bad. But is there a way I can make here feel better something I can make her feel safer with me. And is it bad that I'm getting deppresed for not having sex with her. Please help this has been going on for a long time and I'm getting worse we have had sex ever since please help please.