Darn I am so worried about this outcome.
Hello all. I went out on a date with a girl who lives about an hour from me, so the distance isn't really an issue to either of us. We went out last week, which went well, and then again just last night. Since the first date, she had been texting me a lot and always initiated conversations, told me how excited she was to see me again, and that she was thinking about me a lot. Yesterday she didn't text me at all, until I texted her in the afternoon checking when she got off work so that I knew when to time it and get there on time.
She didn't seem too terribly excited, but she wasn't cold or distant towards me. I think she may be a little shy, I can't say for sure. Anyway, we went clothes shopping for a bit, goofed around there and had some playful conversation, I was touching her a lot, we held hands shortly and kissed a little bit in there, which she didn't appear turned off or cold towards in any way, didn't pull away when I touched her.
After that, we went out to eat where we just talked some more, I was really tired so I wasn't my most outgoing self that night. I just had a feeling in the back of my mind that I was blowing it. The last 10 minutes or so, we had made out and held hands, and she was smiling while we kissed too. I can't explain it, maybe her shyness in initiating things like hand holding and kissing is confusing me, most girls I have been with were not afraid to do this, but she doesn't seem to. But if she isn't stopping it, what do you think? There were some silent moments, but it really wasn't awkward that I know of. We'll find out today if she texts me, if not, I'll assume we are probably through.
Paranoid much, or justified fear?