I am 26 years old will be 27 on the 27th of next month... I have never been able to conceive, believe me I have tried for the past 8 years. Can anyone with any insight tell me why this is and if I will ever be able to conceive and carry to term and have a successful delivery ? This is something that truly weighs on my heart and mind every single day... thanks ~:(

There are no internet psychics.

Your best bet would be to see a doctor.

I know what you are going through! I too had a difficult time concieving... many years worth. Once I quit "trying", or worrying over it, about 2-3 months later, low-and-behold, I was pregnant. I was 26 when it happened.
My cousins, same thing, they tried for nearly 7 years with no luck. They took a vacation, not thinking at all about having a child, only thinking about how good of a time they were having, and they come back only to find out a couple of months later that they conceived while on vacation.
It's extremely difficult to do, but if you can free your mind of the weighty issue of concieving, and just enjoy life, and most of all enjoy sex without it being a time to conceive said child, then hopefully it will come to pass.
It may not happen right away, but of the several instances I can think of, it was shortly after the "trying" was not going on that conception occurred.
I hope this gives you some faith in yourself, and your partner, and gives you hope for your future.

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Originally Posted by homebirthmom

I know what you are going through! I too had a difficult time concieving...many years worth. Once I quit "trying", or worrying over it, about 2-3 months later, low-and-behold, I was pregnant. I was 26 when it happened.
My cousins, same thing, they tried for nearly 7 years with no luck. They took a vacation, not thinking at all about having a child, only thinking about how good of a time they were having, and they come back only to find out a couple of months later that they concieved while on vacation.
It's extremely difficult to do, but if you can free your mind of the weighty issue of concieving, and just enjoy life, and most of all enjoy sex without it being a time to concieve said child, then hopefully it will come to pass.
It may not happen right away, but of the several instances I can think of, it was shortly after the "trying" was not going on that conception occured.
I hope this gives you some faith in yourself, and your partner, and gives you hope for your future.

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Yes, capricorn27:

You would be amazed at how much power the mind has over the body!
Good luck!

My parents had a hard time conceiving (they were in their late 30's). They had a couple from Mumbai stay with them, and the woman promised to stop in Bandra on her way back home and pray at the shrine of the Virgin there. I was born less than a year later.

So I'll say a prayer for you to Our Lady of Bandra, too.

Thank you Alder that is very sweet... :o

Have you visited a doctor about this? 8 years is a long time... although my parents tried for 7 years before I was conceived. There have been great medical advances in 44 years.

You need to see a doctor to know why you can't conceive and take it from there. In some cases a fertility specialist may help, depending why you can not get pregnant.
Here are some basics...
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Our time and GOD's time are 2 different zones.. it is all up to him.. He says ask and you shall receive..

Quick little story. A cousin of mine has been trying to conceive since the early to mid 90s.

She has done it all. Seeing doctorrs, meds, eggs being planted.

After stopping everything and getting her mind off everything... she just got pregnant a couple of months ago.

The mind has power.