I enjoy the company of boys, I can get along very
Well with them and I enjoy having sex with them
I like boys a lot but I also enjoy kissing girls but
I think it's just for fun and actually I have only
Kissed girls when I am drunk but lately I keep
Kissing this girl also when we are drunk but we
Keep kissing and I know she's a bi sexual but I
Don't think I am but I really like it when she
Kisses me I really enjoy it and I started to even
Think about her when she is not with me
I never felt like that about a girl before
Does that mean I have feelings for her? Does
That mean I might be a bisexual?
Plase anwer as soon as possible
virginia 18

You may be attracted to her, for whatever reason, but your definitely bi-curious. When you have sex with her, let us know, and then we will tell you that its highly likely, your bi sexual.

I enjoy kissing girls... even gone a little further. I don't feel the urge to be with a woman. It just HAS happened in certain situations. I would not call myself bisexual. I just look at this as experimenting.

It depends on how close your relations are with her. For me I like having sex with men but I'm also very attracted to women which I think is normal.
If you start getting emotionally attached like you would if you were dating a guy then most like you have deep feelings for her...
When you constantly ask yourself " i wonder what she's doing?", who she's with?" that kind of thing

Anything you do when drinking alcohol is BS.

How do you feel about sex with women when you are sober? Are you able to approach a woman when you are sober? Too fearful? Can you fall in love with a woman?

Really, in my opinion, you have nothing going here but drunken antics. :)

I think bisexuality is very common. Especially at your age. The labels of it are much less important as the value of exploring affection, attraction, flirtation and sexuality. Don't feel you have to call yourself bisexual just because you enjoy experimenting with one girl. Labels mean nothing. Your sober actions are what define who you really are.

Alcohol and drugs are an altering state- meaning they are only temporary and not something to really rely on when making decisions about your health and your lifestyle. I would minimize exploration of drugs and alcohol just for your own sake. I didn't really find this to be related to your question, but I felt inclined to mention it anyway.

Back to the subject.

I am married now and consider myself straight. However, I did experiment when I was younger and I still find women to be very attractive. Sometimes distractingly so. I think I've always been this way and I think it's pretty normal. A lot of women see a beautiful lady and get jealous. I think it's a healthier step to be able to set the jealousy aside and just admire the lady herself. Flirting and pursuing are a whole other step however. Now that I'm married, I don't allow myself to cross that line with any gender or person besides my own husband.

You are young and it is your time and right to explore these things. Instead of asking myself if I am bisexual or gay, I would ask myself questions like:

What attracts me to this girl?
Are these qualities I want to possess?
What situations or persons make me feel comfortable with affection?
How do I express my affection for others?
How do other people's behavior effect my emotions?
Can I love someone from afar?
Do I have to control a situation in order to be comfortable with it?

There is so much to learn about yourself.
Just be safe, observe and enjoy whenever you can.