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  • Nov 5, 2008, 11:13 PM
    Virus4582
    Safe sex
    Hi I was wondering if anyone could answer my question
    I have been sexually active for about 3 years now and my boyfriend (23) and I (20) has unprotected sex every time so I'm not on the injection or any other contraceptives but my question is :confused:can I fall pregnant if my boyfriend pulls out just before he cums?
  • Nov 5, 2008, 11:32 PM
    homebirthmom

    YES!
    Pre-ejaculate fluid is present, in some men starting at the time the erection begins. This little bit of fluid is all that is needed to get pregnant.
    If you are worried about getting pregnant, I suggest birth control of some sort. The pull-out method, the one you are asking about, only works by pure luck.
  • Nov 5, 2008, 11:36 PM
    Virus4582
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by homebirthmom View Post
    YES!
    Pre-ejaculate fluid is present, in some men starting at the time the erection begins. This little bit of fluid is all that is needed to get pregnant.
    If you are worried about getting pregnant, I suggest birth control of some sort. The pull-out method, the one you are asking about, only works by pure luck.

    Oh cz I didn't no my question is also why I didn't fall pregnant yet and in the first year of sex he just came in me but nothing happened?:confused:. Can 1 fall preganant when you swollow ? :eek:
  • Nov 5, 2008, 11:46 PM
    asking

    You have probably just been lucky.

    Withdrawal is a really bad form of birth control with an extremely high failure rate. If you keep on this way, you will soon have a baby.

    Swallowing will not get you pregnant. The sperm would be digested in your stomach and not get to your fallopian tubes (where your eggs are). But if your bf's penis was anywhere near your vagina, you could get pregnant.

    Unless you are planning to have a baby and have got a room ready with a crib, and a babysitter lined up for when you are at work, start using birth control! Go to a doctor, planned parenthood or some similar health clinic.
  • Nov 5, 2008, 11:55 PM
    Virus4582
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by asking View Post
    You have probably just been lucky.

    Withdrawal is a really bad form of birth control with an extremely high failure rate. If you keep on this way, you will soon have a baby.

    Swallowing will not get you pregnant. The sperm would be digested in your stomach and not get to your fallopian tubes (where your eggs are). But if your bf's penis was anywhere near your vagina, you could get pregnant.

    Unless you are planning to have a baby and have got a room ready with a crib, and a babysitter lined up for when you are at work, start using birth control! Go to a doctor, planned parenthood or some similar health clinic.

    OK thank you your replies was very helpfull:)

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