Hey, I am sorry if I offended anyone on the site with my thread last night. I was only trying to get the point through to those girls looking for some perfect unfailable answer. I did not mean any harm by stating the truth. I was not saying that this site was a bad place to ask questions but merely to think a little bit first, before you ask a question that no one can answer or that you already know the answer to.

Hi, godsbabygirl267!

I can appreciate what you're trying to do by starting this thread. However, have you seen the information that's available by clicking on the following links of this site? They're all stickies at the top of the Relationships topic area.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ed-123862.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ck-187766.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...kup-78597.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...id-214452.html

People come here looking for answers. For many situations, there are no pat answers. Sometimes there are though, but not all of the time. There are issues that people have that need to be considered on a case-by-case basis.

Sometimes a person might come on this site with some really emotional and/or self-esteem issues where talking live with someone from this site might be a real benefit to them rather than them just reading answers that have already been given to others.

Thanks!

It is quite appreciating that you are concerned about the girls being knowing the truth...

But on the same hand it is important to realise that many times we know some realities because we have passed through that phase and talk on the basis of our experience... which a person at that age and point in time may not understand that easily...

So it would be great that we empathize that situation and try to answer in as helping and polite way as possible...

Also would like to add that I joined here initially just for asking a question... but the way I was answered (though the truth) make me available to others who come up with their questions with a lottttt of hope!