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  • Nov 5, 2008, 12:34 PM
    Italian2008
    Playing hard to get?
    Hello, I donīt know what to do there is a girl I like and I through she likes me too... well I will tell this from beginning 2 month ago the high school started for us and I become to know her and after some time she hugged me and was very shy she smiled a lot while hugging me then after school I walked her home and she gave me her phone number by writing it on some piece of paper she casually found on the street besides I didnīt ask her for she gave me... then we massaged and I told her that I like her then another time she told me I am sweet and funny and this stuff then we have argued and for 1 week she ignored me a bit then she asked a friend of mine for a faver my friend said why donīt ask massimo(me) then she said no we have argued and smiled... then in school sometimes when iw as around she huged some of my friend I donīt know if it was to make me jealos... so today I send her a massage:how long do you want to ignore me she said: I donīt ignore you me:i think yes she:no meaby itīs because I donīt joke with you like before me:why not? She: I donīt knowi think meaby my charakter changed... me:ah okay... but tell me the thruth do you have interest in me? She:i see you more as a friend.. so know I donīt know if she plays hard to get and want to know if I really like her... or she really thinks of me as a friend?:confused:... answer
  • Nov 5, 2008, 01:36 PM
    JBeaucaire

    Maybe you think too much.

    Maybe life happens in front of you and not in text messages.

    Maybe you talk to her about normal things and include feelings as part of that conversation without getting dramatic.

    Maybe you just take a deep breath and ask her to go do something specific on a specific day at a specific time for a specific amount of time. Should be simple.

    Maybe if you DO ask her out specifically and she says "no", maybe you don't spin off into despair, maybe you just keep talking like friends.
  • Nov 8, 2008, 08:12 PM
    cissy0801

    I agree... don't over think it.

    I think you should just face-to-face tell her because if you did send it through text, she might think that you're joking. :)

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