He always buys me stuff. Like flowers, fruits, cakes, make up and what ever I want him to within reason. Most of the time I do tell him I don't want anything but he might get something anyway.

What should I get him?

He likes aftershave yes. I was going to buy hiom one butu he brought it deliberately. He said I could get him another but to me that's pointless.

He also well i.e. expensive suits and shoes but I can't afford that at the moment.

He wears ties because I like them but is that a good personal gift idea? Things that I like?

What do men like women to buy them? Apart from the obvious, what can women do in return to avoid copy cat buying and make them feel special? (and Im not talking about the obviosso lets get away from that).

Thanks

I've always liked tickets to sporting events or concerts.

Tie's are cool and not all that common depending on the age of the person involved. Cuff-links are another thoughtful gift for a man who is into suits.

Like the above, anything sports is well received.

Knowing your age would help create a list of suggestions.

For instance, if your 20+ and intimate, then buy HIM a sexie nightie for you to wear... you get the idea.

Guys like praise. You can't buy that, but it's priceless. Treat him to a night of you praising him in front of others, being VERY specific. (Like a "roast" but in reverse)

What does he like to do for fun? Getting him tools to use in his hobby(s) shows you pay attention and respect his choices.

Backrubs.
Coupons for backrubs.
"I WIN - Get out of the argument as the winner" card... funny and useful.
"Boys night in" with you catering certificate. (cute waitress outfit optional)

This stuff should result in FUN, not in stuff sitting on a shelf.

Does he have hobbies or interest, a collection, for me I do coins, or I have a lot of action movies

So the real issue what does he do, like and habits or hobbies

Make him a sexy video tape :)

That's the best gift I can think of.

But sadly not everyone is the same :)

So why not find out what he likes to do like a hobby and get him that.
Or a nice tie or cuffs for his cloths