Has this happened to you?
Hi, I have another question up here I'm currently trying to get over my ex who broke up with me seven months ago and now has a new girlfriend who he recently cheated on her with me.. and in the end chose to stay with her. So now I am starting over from scratch.
I'm young, 18, and I feel that I am very naïve and I know I won't fully understand what most of the people that took time to give me advice in my other question but I want to know if you are much older and have experienced more with relationships, if you could help me out.
My question is, is it possible for a persons first love to come back to them? I'm not saying right now, immediately.. I mean after they take a long time away from each other? Will the dumper ever miss the dumpee? Will he ever realize what he gave up? How good she was to him? In this case I am the one that was dumped.. and the one that was always loyal and was cheated on. Pretty much taken for granted and was too available.
As of right now, he hates me and blames me for causing him and his new girl problems when it was him that couldve prevented cheating on her.. I didn't do anything wrong.. I didn't force him to cheat, it was his own choice! So I don't understand why he is kicking me out of his life when I didn't do anything to hurt him like he did to me. He won't answer anything; texts calls emails.. nothing so I have stopped trying.
Has this happened to you? And you really thought it was over for good.. but some how, he or she came back and wanted to try things again when you least expected it to happen?