OK so I been with my boy friend now for 7 months and we were really good friends before that... and I do love him... here's the thing I can't feel anything when we have sex or any other kind of sexual encounters. All I feel is him in me or something like that... it never feels good. Not even when I'm trying by myself. I lost my virginity about 4 years ago and he's not the first guy I've had sex with and I didn't feel anything with them either... shouldn't it feel good after 4 years? Shouldn't I feel something? Is something wrong with me?

Can I ask you something...

Before you have sex is there any kind of foreplay going on?
Exciting each other and... well I don't need to keep going on!

I don't personally think anything is wrong with you but you need to somehow fulfil your needs, try experiment by pushing our own buttons ;)

Yes we do... he's actually amazing at that... read a lot a books I guess... no its just me... like I said its been like that with everyone I've been with...

Have u ever done a smear test?

Yes I have every year and nothing is said to me about anything out of the ordinary...

It could be a lack of nerve ending in your pubic region, is it you do not feel pleasure? Or do you not FEEL ANYTHING at all. In either case you very much need to consult a GYN. And go from there, This is not normal and needs to be addressed by a DR.