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  • Nov 2, 2008, 10:43 PM
    dude23
    What is wrong with me?
    It has been 5 months since my ex broke up with me and I have been in NC since then except for 2 days. I go to parties, hang out with friends and joined a gym but I still feel as miserable as the day she dumped me.She seemed to have moved on but why can't I ?
  • Nov 2, 2008, 11:07 PM
    talaniman

    Just keep doing what your doing. I bet those contacts were recent, weren't they?
  • Nov 3, 2008, 02:17 AM
    JBeaucaire

    Yeah, you GOT dumped. She moved on fast because she had already started to move on before she even broke up with you. She is weeks (if not months) ahead of you on the "moving on" curve.

    It will take as long as it takes. Stop looking at the calendar.
  • Nov 3, 2008, 07:15 PM
    dude23

    It wasn't recent... it was about a month after the breakup
  • Nov 3, 2008, 08:08 PM
    tictac16

    Before anyone ever wanted to break up with the other one, they have already thought about it many times.
  • Nov 3, 2008, 08:19 PM
    TrueFaith

    Off topic but I really really wish! That the other partner would

    Say

    Hey.. put down that chicken.. look I'm having doubts this is what I'm thinking..

    And then! You can get ready
    But not.

    Oh I want to marrie you.. then the next day
    Yeahh no. your not right for me

    Bah!

    :)
  • Nov 3, 2008, 09:13 PM
    ylaira

    Each person has different coping mechanism. Be it person is the dumper, dumpee, not that attached, got enough or lost that loving feelin...You take your time, don't compare, don't ask why...IT'S OVER. That's the point. You are left with options to MOVE ON or be miserable. If you choose moving on (fast like her) just stick to NC. Talking to her as a friendly gesture is not only plastic but will only delay your healing.
  • Nov 3, 2008, 09:25 PM
    talaniman

    Quote:

    You are left with options to MOVE ON or be miserable.
    Nice to have choices.

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