Hello, here is my delema, actually it's my sons, he has this crazy girlfriend that calls him a gazilion times a day he tried to break up with her then she says she is going to kill her self, well anyway he bought a new home last week and moved in on Wednesday, Saturday night rolls around and she is calling and calling, my son and a friend were going out.. she demanded they come and pick her up that's fine , they pull up to were she is and she starts waling on him through the window, he just shrugs it off... later that evening they go back to his new house there was a sober driver, she starts pounding on his vehicle about my son breaking up with her.. this guy had enough and dropped them off at his house where she was screaming and carrying on . She began to smash things in my sons house and assault him again.. He took his telephone camera out and was taking pictures of everything she had recked and told her he was taping this you can see on the video she gets up and is smacking him pretty good.. then after you can hear him ask her to stop hitting him,he say's are you still angry what are you going to do now?She said call her mother.Which he shut off the camera and let her call her mother from his phone.She through her cell phone at him as well.He called her mother and said come and get your daughter she is trashing my house.The mother showed up and they were both outside and he asked the mother to come in and look at the house what she did.The mother just said "oh" The sister was in the car and said they are going to the police?He said go ahead because he had taped everything.As it turned out they went to the police had him charged with assault, confinement which there wasn't any.She through her cell phone at him and she charged him with mischief for that?but that is also on the video that she did it. I know it will all come to light when it goes to court.But meanwhile your reputation gets ruined and you pay a lot in legal fees?It is just something to be aware of. Any comments?

Ok, is he stupid or what, why does he talk to her, why did he let her in his house, she was beating on his car, why was the police not the first call he makes.

I am sorry it sounds like he is bring a lot of this on hisself by letting her be there.

Yes stop seeing her, don't ever answer her calls, get a restraining order and call the police not someone's mother

I said the same thing, but he didn't want her to get charged because she is going to be a teacher, I say who would want her teaching my child?I hear you. He knows he has himself to blame for letting her in.

From her behavior she sounds like she is a bipolar. Your son needs to have her properly charged. I would not want this woman teaching any child for fear she will go "off" on the children for any/no reason. Please try and talk some sense into your son before she ends up having HIM serve time in jail for something she did. Or you may not be able to talk any sense into your son. He'll soon learn to steer clear of this woman after he gets any sort of criminal record. She sounds like she is getting progressively more and more manic and needs to be seen professionally for her disorder/problem.

Yes you are correct, he is formally charging her .He is going through his attorney.That is a good assumption of her, I never would have thought of that I am going to mention that Bipolar as well because she is always like that.
Thank you,

It is very hard to properly diagnose when the person is not in the manic stage though. When they are manic and trashing things, then it's easy. The part about killing herself because she does not get her way is typical also. This girlfriend is extremely unwell to put it mildly and needs professional help asap. She has no idea that what she is doing is wrong either by the way. She thinks everyone acts up like she does and is perfectly normal acceptable behavior on her part.

Very interesting, thank you