She broke up with me about a week or two later she was out and about with the kid that I used to let her hang out with. 3 weeks ago they were (together) You know not dating but together. I don't know its weird. They lasted two weeks and it ended. I have been no contact with her on and off so far last time we spoke was 3 weeks ago. I went to a foot ball game with my friend, his girlfriend and the girlfriends friend. My ex's friend saw us and called her. 30 minutes into the game my ex calls the friend I'm with and flips. She's telling him how could you let him hang out with her. He's to good for her. You promised me you would keep her away from him. I really want to get back with her but I'm not wanting to break the no contact. She's a very stuborn girl. We dated for 2 years you can read about it in my other post. All myfrineds think she wants me back but she's to stubborn to make the move. I know we will be together in the future but I don't know how long that is. Im trying to move on with my life. Im hanging out with a new girl, she's really nice and really pretty but the thought of doing anything with her makes me sick and this is with all girls. No matter how pretty they are. I feel in love with what was on the inside of her and Im having the hardest time moving on. Any help would be amazing. Oh and when she finds out about the new girl I'm sure she will flip out again. When she found out girls were texting me she called me to yell at me. Mixed signals much?

If you are trying to "move on with your life" then why don't you actually do it. You have blinders on to the world right now. Open your eyes a bit. If you two were meant to be then it would happen. You cannot be "moving on" with your life if all you worry about is her. Why did you guys break up and has anything changed to make you think things would be different?

My opinion, you need to move on, for real this time. You are playing with another girl's emotions right now. Think about how she will feel when you tell her it is over and you don't really want her, all you want to do is use her until your ex gets you back. That isn't fair, and believe me, karma is the real deal. You are hurting this girl, and yourself. It isn't anyone's fault that your ex is "too stubborn" to take you back. That is garbage. Move on and quit hurting others.

Im not dating this girl. Our second date is tomarow. I want to move on because I know its wrong to use people to get over others which is exactly why I don't want to lead this one on and then drop her if my ex comes back. Ive done that before and it was horrible. I apologize to that girl everyday and were best friends. My question is do you think she wants me back.

No, I don't think she wants you back, otherwise she would be trying to get you. I don't think it is fair to yourself to keep worrying about it. She wants to do what she wants to do yet when you are living your life she gets mad. That is not love, it is just jealousy.

I think what you should do is tell her how you feel well you might think that a guy would do that but I would what I guy to tell me that if something was wrong what you need is just to relaxe if you can't date any other girl and you have waited for this girl for 3 years I think you are really meant to be with her what you need is some flowers and don't go cheap so her that you really care about her and if she dosen't want you seeing other people then she probebly feels the same about you and that is the only way she know how to show it if she dosen't agree with any thing you say and she says no that she doesn't want to get back to gether then god I giving you a sign that you two are not meant to be and something better will come around the corner

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Originally Posted by squeezplay

My question is do you think she wants me back?

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No, not as long as you aren't seriously dating someone else. She won't be interested in you at all, not really, until you ACTUALLY date someone else officially and really start to get into the new girl.

Once you do that, this ex of yours will most assuredly come back to mess it up for you. She'll stay around long enough for you to mess up with your new girl and/or dump her completely. Then your ex will find some reason to leave again.

Aren't you looking forward to all of this drama?

On the off chance you DO realize it's actually over in the "healthy" department and the only relationship you and the ex will have from now on is in the "unhealthy messing each other up" department, maybe you will date someone new, get interested in her and NOT let the ex screw it up when she comes knocking.

It's your call.

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Originally Posted by ibabysit

i think what u should do is tell her how u feel well u might think that a guy would do that but i would what i guy to tell me that if something was wrong what u need is just to relaxe if u can't date any other girl and u have waited for this girl for 3 years i think u are really meant to be with her what u need is some flowers and don't go cheap so her that u really care about her and if she dosen't whant u seeing other people then she probebly feels the same about u and that is the only way she know how to show it if she dosen't agree with any thing u say and she says no that she doesn't whant to get back to gether then god i giving u a sign that you two are not meant to be and something better will come around the corner

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I blew the flowers away along time ago. I took my cannon a1 black and white film. Wrote in the beac 5 foot long 2 feet wide and 2 feet deep letters saying I love you (insert name here) Climbed a cliff and took the pics in black and white. She cried and said she knows no one in the world would do anything like that for her and it didn't work. I did the flowers half white half red. White means pure and red means love. Build abear with sounds saying I love you (insert name here) Will you go out with me. Nothing worked. I know she wanted to but someone or something was holding her back. She is very influential. Very stubborn. I know I need to move on but its so hard when everyone talks about her. I tell every one to stop but when I go out people still come up to me to talk about her. Its hard. I don't know what to do because she did this once. Before we started dating we got really close. Then we fought she said never talk to her again so I didn't. I got a girlfriend and she came back and I left the girl for her. I know if I date this girl I'm taking out to dinner tommarow she will come back. But that's horrible and I refuse to dump her for my ex. Its wrong immoral and I've been their done that. So I want her to come back before anything serious happens. I feel everyone deserves a second chance.

Dude cut the drama please, if you really felt like the ex was still going to be in the picture, why date someone else any way? Make up your mind and stick to it, and don't play both sides of the fence, just in case. That's not very genuine of you at all.

Your actions ain't matching your words here fella.