Ok, so I am a junior in high school, I met my girlfriend before this summer started, I am 17 now, I was 16 then, she was 18 and still is. She is a caring person, but she is really weird. She is a pathological liar and I am sure of it. She kind of was a pretty big slut in high school but I didn't go to the same one so that didn't bother me. I think that is why we fell in love because I didn't treat her like everyone else. We were together all summer and we started going out. She goes to school in boston and were both from jersey. Everything was going all right. Except for the fact that she was always lying to me for some reason about what she was doing and why she wasn't answering her phone. She would kind of ignore me sometimes but always come back. This past week I was pretty angry at her and we kind of made up and then she was like "so are you still coming on halloween baby" and it was the day before and I said yea I promised you I would so I am. And I was like unless you don't want me to and she was like no I doo. So Friday I skip school, work and go all the way to boston to see her. As soon as I meet up with her she is OK for five minutes, I didn't even get to kiss her because she doesn't do pda apparently. She starts telling me "oh yea we had the party last night. So were probably not doing anything. I was a hippie slut for halloween. Im like oh ok true. So we get into her dorm room and she just keeps fiddling with her earing. Then she goes to sit with me on the bed and just pulls a pillow off and lays on the floor and starts yelling at me for yelling at her. And was like ? like are u really doing this now. So in the end she makes me ing leaves me in her room from 9 at night and goes to her friends room to sleep there. And i called her and texted her and she wouldnt answer. So i wrote her a letter on her laptop and said sorry like the i am. And i leave in the morning because she wouldnt answer. Then she texts me and says "I think that we just need to take a break right now I have al ot to figure out and so do u. You need to figure out if you can rele handle me being away. I don't want to wait, I just texted her and said if she doesn't want to be with me anymore to just tell me now. What do I do? Please help I traveled and skipped school and work and missed a skate competition because I told her I would go visit her. I don't know what to do

You have to read this. It just doesn't make sense

She's a cruel... cruel woman. To make you do all that just to show up and start yelling at you is so beyond aburd that I can't even think of a good word for it.

This woman has disrespected you and given you a lame line to get rid of you, and let me tell you that is the one thing you can thank her for, because you, in fact nobody deserves to be treated like this.

Let this be a lesson to you as well, don't give up school or work for a woman. You have to lead your life first, and if she can't appreciate that, then she's not worth your time... and this woman is not worth your time.

She wouldn't answer my phone calls so I textedher and said some ed up about how she isn't even worth it, and I get a text an hour later saying wow.. u did a complete 180 from yesterday, I told you I need some space I need to figure out what I want and ud o too that's not too much to ask

Leave her alone, change your number and forget her. I have a good word for what you would call her... unfortuantely I cannot type in on here. Do not let her treat you like a rug, that is not right at all. Grow a pair and get her out of your life. Let her chase you if she wants, but she should get nothing from you... not anymore.

Well I just want someone to throw a nut to once in awhile

Jk but I'm about to break up with her right now because she hasn't been asnwering my calls

There are plenty of people you can throw a nut to. She isn't the end all be all of women. Do not put her on a pedestal. You need to "throw a nut" to that actually deserves it. I would love to throw something at her for treating you like that, and it wouldn't be a nut.

She's saying "if u really loved me the way you said u did u would wait forever" that

And I call her and she just says what because she's too much of a to do it over the phone, she has to do it through texts

Dude, lose her! Drop her like a bad habit. Move on and leave her in your rearview mirror.

She sounds awful!

Are these the actions of someone that loves you? And cares for you?

I think not
She wanted to pick a fight with you so you would go home.

Tell her this.. Say OK you act like a kid.. ill treat you like one.. your done missy.

And leave it like that.. forget all about her delet everything about her.
And move on with your life..

Oh yeah and never ditch school for a girl.. your life is the most important thing.

This women has no respect for you.
So show some for yourself
And leave her

I left her and I made her cry, I called her a whore and a waste of life and time

That probably could have been handled better... but I guess you got your point across. Remember, being first class is the only way to go. Next time, no matter how emotionally torn you are, have a little more class than that.

Now, move on. She is dead to you. Improve yourself and your life, that is ALL that matters.

Yea being calm and reserved is the best thing you can do in a breakup. Gives a nice clean break, leave out all the negative unnecessary words next time it makes you look a lot better in the long run as well.

Also it did sound like she was using you like a doormat. Who knows what she was doing while you were away maybe her reputation is justified? Just stay away don't talk to her and go no contact, change your number if you have to. Leave the issue at rest and don't give in to how much she pouts because if she tries to get you back she is going to try to put you on one hell of a guilt trip. But again if she does that it should only solidify the fact that she is not right for you in your mind.

Take the hint, and leave her alone forever, and get a life. She left you holding your pud, so pack up your dignity, and self respect, and never call, text, or communicate with her ever in life.

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Originally Posted by A1nt n0 love

i left her and i made her cry, i called her a whore and a waste of life and time

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I understand where this comes from, if I went that far, traveled that long, and got disrespected that badly, this would be a meager biatching compared to what I would give her, so I commend you for holding back. Do not feel bad for this. How dare ANYONE make you sacrifice what you did, to be so horrible like this. I hope it stung her a bit when you said this, and don't fall for her games or BS ANYMORE.