Hey hi... yaar m preparing for IIT but a girl's thoughts are not letting me study up to the mark... I don't want her to be my girlfriend because that will disturb my studies but I know that I love her... I don't even want to tell her... so tell me something so that I can concentrate on my studies,, I think about her thrice in a day... why??
Even I don't know why... I know it's a weird question but this problem I'm facing... I just want to keep her outside of my mind... ah have tried many times not to think about her but m not able to do this... so tell me sumthng... do reply

Haha, how old are you?

Being able to focus on one thing, while things go on around you, is not easy. Playing chess is a great exercise in learning how to focus, and push distractions aside.

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Originally Posted by lmnotok

haha, how old are you?

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M in 11 stndard... why u asking

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Being able to focus on one thing, while things go on around you, is not easy. Playing chess is a great exercise in learning how to focus, and push distractions aside.

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Man u reply was the best one... thanks... hats off to u

Obviously more info is needed, that's why she was asking, what's the big deal with giving more information?

At least your old enough to understand sacrasim.

Listen we all have to multi task kiddo.. its part of growing up

Tal gave you some great advice.

We can not give you the tools to control how you think..
Because we can not control what we think...

But we can control how we act

So act well. Don't let them thoughts bring you down. In school or anything. Just be strong and move forward