Husband has a close female friend, is it normal?
My husband has an old female co-worker he talks to more days then not. They talk on the phone and text. I use to read the messages but now he deletes them, probably because he knew I was reading them. They rarely talk when I am home. He claims they are just friends and often make the point he works with a lot of women. This is true but he does not talk to any other of them nearly as often. I have caught him lying about going to the bar and he always fesses up. I know a few times other people were there, as well as her, but who knows for sure about other times. I have questioned him about this and he always gets defensive so we fight. The last big fight was when I found messages that they were going to meet out but she went there he was not there so she left. I am sick of wondering and being afraid to confront him because we always fight. What do I do? How do I talk to him? Do I believe him? Can men have female friends?
