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  • Oct 30, 2008, 08:08 PM
    terrybogey
    Problems with my girlfriend
    OK so I got to see my girlfriend last Saturday we hung out, went to dinner, then she told me that her job is going to last another 3 weeks and that she'll come every Saturday to see me. OK before she left I hugged her and told her I was going to miss her and to come back soon. She told me that she was going to call alteast 2 days a week I told her if she could to call me 3 days a week. Its been 5 days and she hasn't called back there is no way for me to contact her so I have to wait for her call instead. Should I just wait until Saturday and ask her why she couldn't call like she said she was going to? She said she was going to buy a calling card to at least talk a few minutes and I was OK with that. Can someone give me some advice in how I should handle this.
  • Oct 30, 2008, 08:55 PM
    BlackVY

    Hmm... Maybe you should chill... she could be busy, and there might be a real reason why she wasn't able to call. If you ask her straight up on Saturday why she didn't call, it'll make u look too clingy and that doesn't seem too attractive if a guy does it. My suggestion is just to chill, and act like it didn't bother you when you see her on Saturday, and see if it just comes up in conversation about why she didn't call.
  • Oct 30, 2008, 10:01 PM
    terrybogey
    OK I'll try it and I hope it works
  • Oct 31, 2008, 12:59 AM
    SimpleguyJoe

    Well as there is nothing to worry about yet just calm down. I can relate what your doing to a poker player trying to analyze a hand before the cards are even delt.

    So just live life it's not that long to wait. So just wait be calm go about life and see what happens next time you meet her.
  • Nov 1, 2008, 05:57 PM
    terrybogey
    OK its Saturday and I haven't heard anything from her and I was wondering in where I went wrong in the relationship. We never got into huge arguments just small ones that we put behind us. I treated nice she even told me that she never had someone treat her as nice as me and that she has a blast hanging out with me. I have feelings for I just don't say that I do I actually show that I do have feelings for her by buying her roses and I even got her a teddy bear and I sprayed the bear with the cologne she likes that I put on. I don't think its space because I give her plenty of that we normally hang out 5 or 6 days a week when she wants to go somewhere with her friends I let her I don't question her where she is actually goes because she just tells me what she is going to do.

    I just wish she would call me to let me know she is OK. I know what town she is in but I don't want to go there because I feel that I would look like a stalker or that I have trust issues. The town is like 3 hours away. So I could make the trip there but I don't want to look like I have trust issues. She has no cell phone but last week she was able to contact me by having someone at work let her borrow it to call me. We hung out last Saturday we had fun I told her that I will miss her hugged her and said that I'll be waiting for her here to return. I just don't see where I went wrong. I don't think I'm too clingy I just show that I care for her. Well she said the job is going to last another 3 weeks last Saturday so here are my options I could just wait the other 2 weeks and hope everything is OK or just think that this is her way of telling me that its over. Any advice would help thanks.
  • Nov 2, 2008, 01:19 PM
    terrybogey

    So should I just wait out the next 2 weeks and when she comes home for good just hope that everything is OK or should I just take it as a hint that she doesn't want to be with me again?

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