How do you explain affection to my boyfriend?
My boyfriend & I have been dating for 21 months. Incredible for a good year. Communication, affection, sex all good. Comfortability set in on his end & it became like an old married couple. From sex 4-5 x's a week to a scheduled 1 dy a week (not by my choice), from cuddling while watching TV all the time to a quick hug now, from excitement when we saw each other to a quick peck of a kiss now. He calls me 4-5 x's a dy to tell me he loves me & is thinking about me. We do talk all the time, our communication is good, but I do not think we are on the same page today. I talked to him about the intimacy/affection part of the relationship & he tells me as far as he's concerned everything is perfect. He loves our life & he dosen't know what the problem is. I have tried to explain to him what was then & what is today (I know relationships change as you settle in awhile) He tells me he does not get it, what am I complaining about. There is not a lot of touching & I need that in a relationship. I don't want to be smothered, but I do want affection. How can I explain to him what I need? I am becoming resentful & angry every time we see each other. We only see each other about 4 x's a week. I told him if this is how he is I need to either accept it, or move on. He did not respond. I do know he loves me to death, I can tell by his many phone calls throughout the day. Any suggestions
Stephieco
Stephieco