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  • Oct 30, 2008, 05:46 AM
    trev920
    fallen for a girl
    I have known this girl in the grade below me for about 1 year now and have always really fancyed her. The problem is that she has always seamed to have a boy friend and they always seam to be the wrong kind of guy =/, I have always found her to be really nice and not the kind of girl you might be thinking about. Most of my probem has been on my part because I have never had the you know what's to ask her out when she has been singel, but lately we have been getting really close, forexample the other day she asked me round and we where just talking and stuff, the trubel is she has a boyfriend otherwhise what would have most probely been the moment to ask her out. I know for a fact that she used to fancy me but that was whail she was going out with someone different =[ and we have kissed a few times at partys and othertimes. Please tell me what I should do.

    soz about spelling
  • Oct 30, 2008, 05:56 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    You just ask her out, if she is kissing you at a party, then she really does not have anyone she is serious about,

    BUT, if she likes certain types of boys, she may not be that interested in other types, you don't know till you ask.

    Also what if she is dating you, but then is kissing other boys at parties?
  • Oct 30, 2008, 08:08 AM
    JBeaucaire

    ... and if she was kissing you at parties but she "always seems to have a boyfriend"... that means she kissed you while she had a boyfriend? Um... cut THAT out!

    Dude, I know you like her, but if she can slip around behind her boyfriend's back to kiss you at a party, she can/WILL do the same thing if YOU were the boyfriend.

    Remember that. And when you forget, remember it again.
  • Oct 30, 2008, 09:02 AM
    trev920
    o sory my mistake I dident meen to say she kissed me when she had a boyfriend because every time she has, she hasent been going out with anyone. But after a kiss I went to try for more and she just backed away, was this me or something else maby ?=[

    ps
    sory I got it wrong and if she was going out with someone when she kissed me I woudent have let it happen I'm not like that.
  • Oct 30, 2008, 09:16 AM
    JBeaucaire

    OK, if she has a boyfriend, respect that and go spend time with single girls or your guy friends. Don't flirt dangerously with someone else's girl.
  • Oct 30, 2008, 09:24 AM
    TrueFaith

    Ill agree with everyone

    Respect that she has a boyfriend

    Trust me messing with girls with boyfriends
    Never lead to anything good

    Best of luck
  • Oct 30, 2008, 06:23 PM
    curiousteenager
    Well if I was this girl and I was having problems with the guys I'm dating I would be looking for the right guy and maybe you are the guy for her if you care so much about her. You need to tell her how you feel because girls like guys that speak about there feelings. I think that if she's kissing you then she fefels something as well. Talk to her and hope for the best
    Lots of love
    Your friend
    :pcurious teenager:p
  • Oct 30, 2008, 08:59 PM
    talaniman

    Dude if she has a lot of boyfriends, what makes you think you'll be the last one?

    Have fun when she is single, but don't get carried away.

    When she has a b/f, leave it alone.
  • Oct 30, 2008, 09:23 PM
    TrueFaith

    Yeah teenager not to be rude here

    But I total disagree with you.

    But only the part where he should talk with her.

    He should leave her alone. Because kiddo :) when girls are kissing around while they have a boyfriend
    It means they are lacking in the old Moral department.. wouldn't you agree? Just because you have feelings for someone does not mean its going to do you good to get with them.

    We should not send him down a road of hurt


    And what's to stop her from doing it when she is with him...


    Yeah so I will say this again

    Leave the girl alone and find an Honest one.
    Its not that hard :)
  • Nov 1, 2008, 11:36 AM
    dave146

    The only thing to do is wait until she´s free... How old are you?
  • Nov 1, 2008, 01:24 PM
    411Help
    You might find yourself in physical danger down the road if you keep up this reckless behavior, be careful, date SINGLE girls.
  • Nov 1, 2008, 01:31 PM
    dave146

    True...

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