How To Get Him To Talk To Me Again? I Still Love Him
Recently met someone after separating and filing for an annulment from my abusive ex who disappeared to another state. We fell in love shortly after and had a few great dates (no sex). I last saw him over a month ago on a Thursday and everything was perfect, but on Monday morning he had coffee with his Pastor who told him not even to see or speak with me until all was final in writing. (Well my ex was stalling, trying to get money from me.). He notified me of this by email and I basically answered that I disagreed with the Pastor, that we could still see each other as friends and, I found that I could go to Guam and get a 14 day divorce to please the Pastor's problem. He emailed me back that I was impatient and selfish because his Mom went to the hospital (this was the first I heard she was in the hospital).
We were both under a lot of stress - he caring for an elderly Mom and having pain and me trying to unravel my legal problems.
I tried to follow up with him, asking about his Mom's condition and his pain, but he does not answer my email or my phone call. I'm stunned... still I love him.
What should I do?
Wait it out?