I fund my girlfriend add on one website ?
I thought my girlfriend face full to me and I helped her so much as I been waiting for her six month now but I fund her add on website that she been access to it today . Well the story is she went back to her country to learning hairdressing for six month and after three month she told me that may she going to USA to finish her coursr through her coullge ! But she said maybe ! So two month ago I trying to call her she never answered her phone ! So I rang her sister and she told me that she went to USA . So emailed her and she told me sorry that I didn't told you because she knews that I don't like it she go there !
So anyway I told her is OK hope to see you soon and good louk , well I was feeling she was a bet cold and I emaild her that she may lie to me and she start be angry and told me that she will never come back to england and even she will never back to her country too ! But I send her lots emails and told her that I am sorry if I made you angry and that stuff but still never got respond from her now for a week ! But I was checking internet and fund her photos on one website that she looking for man!! I really shokt ! So I looked at her accsees day to see when she was on last time , she was on today at 9 pm . Thought she was face full to me andshe told me that she can go on internet in USA because she far from it ! Also faenally I fund out she was lie really because she just benn on internet today and she also been lie saying that she in USA but I knew that she not there anyway because the emails she was sended before it was her country time not in USA ! She was sending emails some time in the morning and when I was looking at the time it was 2 am in USA or she send other day it was 4 am was in USA ! Anyway can you help me and tell me what shell I do ?and do you think she will change her mind come back or not ?because I her sister told me on the phone last time that we should give her time to she think about her life and so on ! Do you think shell I believe her sister or not ? Because want to know why her sister just not saying that I think she don't want to be with me and that is it ! Help please .

Do I think she will change her mind?

My friend that is the least of your problems.
Im very sorry for your loss

But listen to me what she did was pretty selfish and she did not have the guts or respect to talk to you about any of this

So my advice Is leave the women alone
And get on with your life

And feel sorry for the next guy that comes into contact with this women.

But we have told all this BEFORE!
Listen... Stop contacting her!
Yeah your right she does not want to be with you.
She has an ADD looking for someone else
And she does not want to come back to the Uk

And you think she does not want to be with you?

Get your head out from the rock

Stop talking stop thinking stop trying to contact this women
And work on yourself

Because what your doing now is just very sad.
Stop it have pride in yourself

Oh I really like the part where she said she can't go on the net because she is far from it.

I mean... WoW.

Trurfaith thanks for your reply . But why she made me wait for 6 month and now she saying good bye to me in the end ?
But I think I will give her break for about 2 weeks and I will send her anther email and say that I am sorry if I made her angry or something may she change her mind ? What do you think ? Because I love her so mch . Can't take her out from my head really and can't forget her at all ! Help please . Also do you think better I find her adresshome and go to her house may talk to her and she change her mind ? What do you think ?

Are you insane?

I have given you help.. Your are just not listening to it. Nor are you willing to make a change in your habbits

This will be my last message to you. Understand? I Will not have a circular discusion with you.

Do Not give her a break..
She has left you OK.
She has put an add for another guy. Yes?
She told you she would never come back to the uk.

How much more PAIN do you want to go threw?

Listen I know you love her. But what we love sometimes is not good for us
And she isn't good for you.

Now your starting to worrie me, that you can not see this and are not willing to make steps to better your life and to stop this hurt.

And you want to Go to her house and talk to her and change her mind?
F@@# ME.

I swear to god if you do that. I will personaly find out where you live and hit you hard on the head!

Do not go to her house do not talk with her
Please listen

No Contact move on.
This is for your own good

And you really need to work on your needy streek.

Truefaith . Thanks you are a star , I will lestin to you and from now I will try to forget her , thanks again .

You really need to let go. Checking to see when she was on line isn't good for you. It would just make you madder. You can't make someone be with you and if they don't want to be with you why force their hand? Move on and stop checking her profile. Again, let go.

Yes, when she left for all those months it should have been obviouis to start with.

Let it go

Why didn't you answer my question in the other post?

What about this woman's actions over a 6 month period of ignoring you would imply that she's interested in you.

She start ignoring me about a week now really and I was thinking that I made her angry but after that I found I feel deffreint now I think she was lie to me all that six month, but is very hardto for get her still but I will try my best , or may she relise oe day and with god help she back to me .

Dude, she moved on. She moved to another country... then lied about what country she moved to and never gave you an address or phone number?? What about that says she's into you?

You all right fella . Is true , I will try for get her too , but what you think if I regester on same wesitshe on and ask her to add me as a friend ?

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you alright fella . is true , i will try for get her too , but what you think if i regester on same wesitshe on and ask her to add me as a friend ?

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Yeah do that.














PS. To other posters, do not disagree with me in the disagree box, if he's going to keep posting the same nonsense in post after post, thread after thread he deserves his fate.

Cool thanks fella . For your help

You have misst the whole point haven't you Sarwat.

I will try to forget her but what if I Add her as a friend on the same website?.
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Now I don't feel sorry for you
Now you have pisst me off

Im done with this

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Originally Posted by sarwat1

you alright fella . is true , i will try for get her too , but what you think if i regester on same wesitshe on and ask her to add me as a friend ?

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How exactly would this help you? Stop obessiving over her! This will show her how desperate you are. She don't want to be bother. Repeat that over and over until you get it. She don't want anything to do with you.

Truefith , why what is wrong with that if I ask her just be friend that is all I will not tlak to her about pass though !

Do you really think she going add you as a friend?

I will try if she dos is fine if not I will forget he for good and throgh all her photos to bin and that sit .

Ain't that much love in the world to make me be friends, with someone who treated me that cruelly.

Nor would I spend a lot of time crying over the crap she put me through.

Common sense would let me celebrate the end of some bad treatment, and heal, and get me a life.

Just me.

Sorry for your loss, that was a terrible experience.