I meet this guy and now we are going to get married and we found out that we are going to have a baby girl but I have two boys at the ages 9 and 7. I guss how do I tell them mommy going to have a baby. :confused:

I think you need to stress the idea that you love this guy and you are having a baby because that's one of the things that people in love do.

[QUOTE=ScottGem;1344415]I think you need to stress the idea that you love this guy and you are having a baby because that's one of the things that people in love do.[/QU will the thing is they don't leave with me and I thank if I tell them I'm going to have a baby that they might thank I don't love them

Then you reassure them that this will not change your feelings for them, it just adds to your family.

Thanks

You have too tell them directly they probably feel bad about the new man in your life you have too make them feel like if there the most important thing in life put the baby and them on an equal statis can't make the baby seem more important then them if not that will create jelosy and misbehavoir always give them lots of attention make them feel exited about the baby :o