My boyfriend wants to go to the stripclub with his buddies.
So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and it has been a wonderful experience for both of us. I really see a lot of potential for us in the future and he does too. I know that he has gone to the stripclub with his buddies once in the past when we first started dating and at that time I didn't make it an issue considering it was early in our relationship. Recently though an old friend of his has been asking him to go to stripclub. He even called the other night (I was spending the night with him on this night) asking him to go but he declined and he said he was too tired. He then went on the recommend which ones to go to while I was sitting in the same room... should that bother me? I'm not stupid... obviusly I know the names of the various stipclubs in the area. After that, he told me if he hadn't been so tired that he would've gone out with his friends that night. I felt really awkward just because I was staying the night with him and I assume that if he would've gone he would've just left me at his house while he goes out for a night filled with almost naked chicks dancing and whatever else they do. I've told him that it bothers me but because he is a guy he doesn't see it that way. He told me that I can't tell him what to do and in all honesty I don't. He gets really freaked out when he feels that his freedom is being taking away from him... you know. So, anyway all I know is that it's coming and I know that soon he is going to want to go. He has even mentioned that maybe its best that he not tell me so that I won't get upset but I think that's a horrible idea. That could make it to where he might go more or something... I don't know. Grant it... I am over at his house all the time and we see each other everday. So... I'm going to know when he just randomly mentions that he going out with his buddies where he will be going. I honestly feel like he really wants to go... but I don't know why. Any opinions or thoughts would be appreciated. I just don't know how to deal with this particular issue. I don't want to make a huge deal out of it but at the same time it does bother me. HELP PLEASE!