So this guy I really like and he likes me to but we can't do anything about it cause he has a girlfriend but she is suppose to move this month,
After she leaves and if he asks me out should I say yes?
Or no cause I think ill just feel like a rebound and that's what people will probley say

If I was you id tell him that you really like him and you just want to see how things go
Because you don't want to be the rebound girl

If he's moving, no point, really? I always recommend to avoid pointless drama.

No j beaucaire his girlfriends moving and pink11 wants to know if we think she should go for it when or if he asks her out

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Originally Posted by COOKIE MONSTER

no j beaucaire his girlfriends moving and pink11 wants to know if we think she should go for it when or if he asks her out

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Doh! My bad. Clarification noted.

OK, I don't understand the problem then. It doesn't matter if the girlfriend is in town or moved away somewhere... you don't date people with girlfriends... even long-distance ones.

The answer is always the same. Let the person know you're interested in them if they're ever back on the market...i.e. single again. That's it. Nothing more. No inappropriate flirting, no what-if stuff. You act noble and you don't cheat, nor tempt cheating behavior in others. Ever. Period. End of story.

Right?

So, let him know you'd like to do something with him sometime if he ever gets single OFFICIALLY... none of that "I'm not happy with my GF so come and console me" garbage.

No if she moves there going to break up
Not still be together

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Originally Posted by pink11

no if she moves there gonna break up
not still be together

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Nothing in my reply changes. You can't predict. You can only let him know you are interested in doing something with him sometime IF he gets single.

You can't do anything until then, you know that. So for now, you wait. There's nothing to say yes to yet.

How do you know he likes you and how long was him and his girlfriend together?