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  • Oct 25, 2008, 02:04 AM
    funnyzap
    4 years of relationship without any hope.
    Most of us were in love and relationships. Many of us claim that if we spend time together with our Girl Friend/ Boy friend, then we will get to know each other very well. Now, I doubt that.
    We are into this relationship for more that 4 years. Stayed together, had same opinions and everythg, but when it comes to family we are not in the same boat. I ask him to tell about our relationship to his parents but he has not done it in the 4 years saying that they will get to know about it slowly. If I ask him "lets get married" then he has given me the following reasons at different times:
    1. I have two elder brothers, they have to get married first.
    2. Lets be successful in our business then we will get married (started our own business and I am handling it at his hometown and he is some where else).
    And so on and so forth

    Please let me know what I should do in this situation. Should I wait or forget about him and move on in life. He is doing this for more than 4 years.

    I am a bit confused.:confused:
  • Oct 25, 2008, 08:12 AM
    talaniman

    I have a feeling your not american, and their may be some culture, or traditional differences I am unaware of, but your wasting your time with someone who will not commit, and has to many excuses.

    4 years is ample time to decide what the next step will be. Just my opinion.

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