Hey this is bman 800 AKA Bryan. OK here's the problem : in my last class , drama there is a girl she is Very attrctive girl BUT she has a boyfriend. I know you should lay off as soon as you hear that but she is the cutest little thing you have ever seen not just physicly but she is funny, makes me feel great about myself and I have always had a low self asteem! And I KNOW she is interested she admitted it herself. Now today in class we had to wright a play in a group annd present it. So we were sitting in the theater and she puts her head on me and says she's tired so I put my ar around her and today I wore an oold pair of pants they have a hole in the side like in the upper area near ma D*** and she kept putting her fingers in the .she keeps giving me these big long looks. Then on a piece of paper she writes you know I'm hitting on you right? Like WOW what do I do? What I'm thinking is that if she really liked me then she would break it off with sir douche a lot (her boyfriend) but is she Wasn't intersted then she would not be flirting with me right?

Not necessarily. I too, have a boyfriend and its easy to talk to other guys because its something new. I wouldn't think much of it.. but then again that's how my boyfriend and I got started.. I talked to him instead of my ex.

If you're TRULY interested in her, then be a noble guy, too. Just come right out and tell her, "Look, I really like you, a lot. You know that, right? So, here's the thing...I'd like to be more than your flirting friend. To do that, I need you to be available. As soon as you ARE available, you're not going to be able to keep me away, I promise that. But until then, I'm not going to be a cheater nor tempt you to be one, OK? Your boyfriend deserves honesty, the same I would expect if we get together. Let me know when the coast is clear."

Wow, she's quite the player isn't she?

Ask yourself this, do you want to date a girl that isn't loyal? Do you want a girlfriend that you know will play around with other guys?

If she's really in to you then she'll break up with her current boyfriend and ask you out.

Is she interested? I'm sure she is, but how long before she becomes interested in someone else?

Good luck.

Well does she just date several guys, one can date more than one person, until you start getting seroius with one as long as you are honest about it.

Ok, now LISTEN to ME. I was in this situation a few months ago, right before the summer break. Im a girl, but it's NOT a different story. If she likes you more than her boyfriend, then she WILL break up with him. If she doesn't have it in her to choose you over him, then its not worth it. YOUR responsibility to yourself and this other guy is to lay low until they break up. THen, you can date her. DO NOT impose on his territory. Its her responsibility to break up with him first. Don't hurt yourself by messing with her while she's UNAVAILABLE.