Ok guys and gals, I've done the impossible and gotten my ex back! My problem is that I am jealous and insecure, and I know that I will push her away again with this behavior. I'm always playing 50 questions with her and looking for inconsistancies. I know this probably drives her crazy. I also know that it is unattractive and seems to have caused her to lose respect for me. I feel like she has gotten the " I've got him where I want him" attitude. How do I flip the script and get that attitude to go away? How do I get her to respect me again?