I was in this relationship for a year and a half and now he's gone 3 weeks ago this Friday he was supposed to come to my house and spend the weekend we had talked off and on that whole day so about 7 that night I had started texting him and calling but he didn't answer this went on all night ,on Saturday morning I got him to answer his phone at 9;30 and was short with me can't really say what we talked about just wasn;t nice but after we hung up he turned his phone off till Sunday night ,so at this point I'm pisseed I want to know what's going on well a little background he is living with his friend and his friends wife and kids staying in there basement and his friends sister is allways over there she is divorced and I had a feeling she was there and convienant and sure enough I found out that they are dating he changed his number and lives 45 min. away so I have no contact with him, I JUST WANT ANSWERS we wasn;t fighting we were going to get married he said I was his solemate and we were going to grow old together my kids loved him ,by the way he's 35 and been married 2 times and has 3 kids with those 2 ex wives and don't see the older 2 ,and I'm turning 46 on the 29th so I'm feeling so hurt I'm older and it is hard to find a decent guy at my age I'm worried I won't find anyone as sweet as he was he allways complimenting me was allways telling he loved me and telling me I'm beautiful and then just dumps me ,for ms.CONVIENANT is filling his head with all sorts of kudos and he's eating it up but I do wonder if he will try to come back or call when he gets bored with her and by the way he downgraded a lot I'm very pretty and look young and get hit on a lot so I don't get it he just acts like he turned everything off for me and never thinks about me he won't call to even find out if I'm OK I don't know what to think,and if one more person tells me I'll be OK I'll get over it I'll scream I wasn't this tore up over me and my husband divorcing ,I have tried everything to move on I can't get past WHY!