Originally Posted by
ziggyelephant
okay so this is my third question on Help Desk, and again its about my boyfriend. I found out some information that I didn't know about him. It begins on how we met. My friend Charlene and I were walking around a shopping center trying to figure out what to do later that night. We were just walking around in circles, well 2 guys noticed that we were just doing laps around the isles. They whistled and yelled at us trying to get out attention. We began to play with them, we knew they were trying but we ignored them. We finally gave in and went down the isle. I am a very insecure girl. I just feel that no guy could find me attractive. But he was showing me attention. I gave him my phone number, and we stayed up the whole night talking. I really liked him. We saw each other every day. I liked having someone in my life. We went to the beach at night, his mom and I get along great. OH! I forgot, well Charlene and Andrew(his friend) started talking and well all they did was talk, and a few kisses here and there, but shes not interested in him. Well anyways Caleb and I were happy. Then recently hes been blowing me off. I invited him over so he could meet my mom, he said at first he was going to meet up with a friend, and he would be over after. I told him that it was fine, and hours pass. I called him and he started to drink with his friend. I told him that he didn't have to worry about coming over, i didn't want my moms first impression of him to be a drunk. So later that night I invited him over again, and he said that he could come over, but he passed out! I didn't see him for the rest of the week. I saw him during the weekend, and I felt like I was in his way the whole time. I went over to his house, and he sat on the couch playing a video game the whole time, so I left. Then I went and saw him again, and I felt like i was in his way again. To me it doesn't feel the same. Then last night Andrew called me(his friend). Andrew told me from the beginning Caleb wanted Charlene not me, and Andrew wanted me. He said that Caleb has been finding ways to avoid me, that hes been lying to me, and that the only reason he started to gain interest in me was when I told him that I was having a house built. I confronted him and he said yes at first he was interest in Charlene not me. But then he got to know me, and wants to be with me. He told me that he was falling in love with me, and that he didn't want all of this drama, and I asked if he was losing interest in me, and he said from bringing all this on him that he was beginning to. He told me to give him the rest of the night and he would call me in the morning. Then at 1 am Andrew called me and I didn't answer, but he sent me a text saying that if I wanted we could start to talk but not to let anyone know. I told Caleb that. and now I'm here. Not knowing what to do. Everyone I talk to tells me to get rid of Caleb. But its nice having someone.
When I'm with Charlene they guys just stare at her. She's tall Spanish, long brown hair and a big booty. So when I'm with her I know they're not looking at me. I get to sit there and watch guys shower over her, while I just stand there. To go from feeling unwanted to having someone, I don't want to lose that feeling.
I don't know what I'm asking, i guess just some advice, or someones point of view. I know that this is a rather long "question" but I would appreciate all comments:) thank you!
