Me and my wife been together for about 10 yrs and maried only 3 yrs... recently I looked in her moble phone and saw a text message and a phone number... so my ego was killing me and I called the number to later find out that it was a male and not the female name she had it under.. my question would be is... is it OK for her to have male friends I don't know about and to list them under a woman name.. I found it strange to be texting someone at 5 am.