Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Relationships (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=277)
-   -   How To Win Her Back (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=272737)

  • Oct 23, 2008, 09:34 AM
    kevlawrence
    How To Win Her Back
    I really don't know what to do to win her back :confused:

    We were together for about 13 months, then it ended. :(

    We started having arguments over the most stupid things

    She then started seeing some one to take her mind of me, but that didn't work, I was very very upset as it was just weeks after we split up.

    I then add a couple of friends who are girls, on my MSN and she says I've ruined everything because of that! (we were still really really close friends, but that is no more because of what I've done)

    She tells me I've to show her that I love her! (Which of course I do) but how can show her if she doesn't want to know me? She says never give up and try harder, but I've tried as hard as I can!

    I really don't know how I can show her, I still Love this girl with every bit of my heart

    I need HELP!
  • Oct 23, 2008, 09:38 AM
    kctiger

    What about YOU do you need to work on? This isn't a game. Don't go crawling back to her, you are a man for crying out loud! Work on yourself to improve yourself overall, and make YOURSELF more valuable. If SHE wants to crawl back then let her, but don't chase women. I tried doing that about a month ago... then I realized that I am too good for that crap. I know you love her, but dude give yourself some credit. If she really wanted to be with you, she would. Don't let her make you prove yourself to her... are you kidding me! She can kiss your A$$!
  • Oct 23, 2008, 10:57 AM
    talaniman

    Quote:

    She tells me I've to show her that I love her! (Which of course I do)
    Must not be enough, and probably nothing you do will be enough. By the way what has she done to prove how she feels about you? Oh that's right, argue and dump you. Take a hint, fella.
    Quote:

    how can show her if she doesn't want to know me? She says never give up and try harder, but I've tried as hard as I can!
    You haven't done enough tricks to entertain her. If you do you're a fool, so take that hint, disappear from her life and let her buy a dog.
  • Oct 23, 2008, 11:00 AM
    neverme

    She is just keeping you on the backburner.
    Let her go.
    She's not worth it, she couldn't give a **** about you. Your better than this.
  • Oct 23, 2008, 12:08 PM
    Romefalls19
    [QUOTE=kevlawrence;1336240]
    She tells me I've to show her that I love her! (Which of course I do) but how can show her if she doesn't want to know me? She says never give up and try harder, but I've tried as hard as I can!QUOTE]

    ::Here boy, fetch... Nope wrong stick.. sit... Stay... Play dead::

    That's how you show her, do everything and anything she wants. Heck offer to drive her around when she goes out on a date


    Dude, grow a set. You shouldn't have to jump through hoops for some selfish immature female. If she doesn't know you love her by now then she never will. You will be the laughing stock of her friends if you continue this path.
  • Oct 23, 2008, 12:29 PM
    neverme
    [QUOTE=Romefalls19;1336523]
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kevlawrence View Post
    She tells me ive to show her that I love her! (Which of course i do) but how can show her if she doesnt want to know me? She says never give up and try harder, but ive tried as hard as i can!QUOTE]

    ::Here boy, fetch...Nope wrong stick..sit...Stay...Play dead::

    That's how you show her, do everything and anything she wants. Heck offer to drive her around when she goes out on a date


    Dude, grow a set. You shouldn't have to jump through hoops for some selfish immature female. If she doesn't know you love her by now then she never will. You will be the laughing stock of her friends if you continue this path.

    VERY well said.
  • Oct 23, 2008, 12:31 PM
    ZoeMarie

    Maybe she was seeing this guy when all the arguing over little things started. Just a thought.

  • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:01 AM.